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God made us for connection. To be a healthy human being, you require healthy relationships in your life.I would be giving you some tips that you need to know on relationships. They are

1. People bring the best or worse in you.

2.Choose your friends wisely.

3.Life is a choice. dont let anybody force an unwanted friendship in you.

4. Proximity is no license for access. Access is the greatest gift you can give to anybody. Mind whom you give it to. Because someone stays close to you, grew up in the same neighbourhood with you, does not give them the right to have access to you. If they are not the kind of people you want in your world.

5.Like attracts like your friends mirror you.

6.Go to where you are celebrated and not tolerated

7.Move with people who are going in the same direction with you,people you share common interests and values with.

8. You must learn to initiate friendship with people you like or want to know,show geniune interest in people

9. Your circle of friends determine to a large extent what you become in life.

10. Look for men and women who are successful in their chosen fields of endeavour and do all it takes to get them into your circle of influence

11. Every friendship must have a purpose.Every relationship must have a focus.Avoid purposeless association

12. There are three levels of relationship you need to cultivate in order to live a balanced life.

13. To attract quality people in your life, you must learn to develop an agreeable and pleasing personality. Be fun to be with. Be easy to get along with.

14. Treat each person with consideration, care and courtesy.

15 You can begin to attract people into your life by improving your people skills. Learn to smile when you meet or greet people, it tells
them that you are glad to see them. Apologize when you are wrong, Learn to use the universal neutralizer of negative emotions- I am sorry.

16. Become a solution provider, a problem solver, a peace maker. Above all, be a man of integrity. Being associated with truth will draw
more quality people into your life than any other positive trait you may possess.

17. A contentious and argumentative disposition will repel people from you faster than any other weakness you may possess.