There are certain facts you need to know or consider when you communicate with poeple outside,
Below are some inmportant ones you need to know,i urge you to read all and apply them to your
life.
1.You are what you say.watch what you say
2.Your words reflects your values and beliefs
3.Always keep secret confidential,if the people who spoke with you in confidence wanted
the world to know,the would have posted it on the internet
4.You are not better than anybody else,so never speak condescebdingly to people
5.Be extremely polite to people.It really is a door opener in both career and relationship
6.When you are tempted to be rude always try to resist it.
7.If you dont know what to say,say nothing
8.To become an exceptional conversationalist practice active listening,ask questions,do not interrupt
and maintain eye contact
9.If you catch yourself exaggerating,ensure to correct yourself immediately and say the right thing.
Because the more you lie,you find yourself needing more lies to cover up the other lies.
10. The easiest way to make an enemy is to win an argument and make the other person look
stupid especially in public. Express your opinion and let others express theirs,
11. Learn to pay compliments to people,especially when they look, dress, speak or perform better than you.
12. Don’t try to impress people with your accomplishment, let them discover it themselves.
13. Name dropping is inappropriate. Don’t use the names of successful or famous people in conversation to boost your low self esteem.
14. Speak of the good in all your relationships, both past and present.
15. Learn to be assertive, tactful and sensitive.
16. Say the best about people you are not really close to but have heard or read about. Some of their friends may be present listening to you.
17. When Talking with people,avoid talking about your hurts and those who engineered them.
18. Don’t advertise your past failures, short comings or weakness. Always engage in edifying conversation.
18b. Work on your communication skills. There is no worse put off than a good looking man or a woman with a terrible command of the english language. Improve yourself. Remember that your facial expression and body language form about 60 percent of your
communication, so let your words and non verbal cues harmonize. Your ability to express yourself clearly will draw people to you and
open doors of opportunity in relationships and business.
